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by Rob Porter | August 23, 2022


The idea of success is a nebulous one. Success means different things to different people, but what we can all agree on is success feels great. Conversely, missteps on the path towards a goal can be detrimental to achieving success, and can lead to negative thought patterns. It is important to define success for yourself, and to learn to recognize when you’ve been successful, so that you can keep your spirits high and your momentum going.

Defining Success

Whether it’s a promotion, buying your first house, or being your own boss, the definition of success can vary wildly depending on what you’ve set out to accomplish. In a general sense, success can more or less be defined as a favorable outcome to any given situation, but what is a successful person? Is it somebody who has achieved success in their life? If so, does the road to success end once a goal is reached?

The truth is, being successful is not about attaining some sort of perceived status, and the road to being successful is never-ending. Try to imagine “being successful” as taking positive steps every day in your life. We’ve talked about how having one giant goal can make the task of reaching it seem insurmountable; sure, getting that great promotion is a form of success, and it may be your big goal, but in the long run it accounts for a very little amount of time in your life. What about the rest of the time?

“Being successful” is exactly what the phrase means-it is a state of being; a constant. When defining success for yourself, you must then ask yourself what you can do every day in order to be successful. This can be as simple as maintaining a healthy diet all day long, being extra productive at work, or learning something new. Having consistently good days will create a snowball effect in which you’ll feel constantly successful, positive, and motivated.

Maintaining a Positive Outlook

A positive outlook is integral to being successful. Setting small, daily goals for yourself will help you make progress each day, which will contribute to that snowball effect we were just talking about. Taking care of your health is another great way to stay positive and feel good about yourself. Make sure you get plenty of sleep, eat a healthy diet, add some exercise into the mix each day, and know your limits-everyone needs to rest once in a while.

A healthy routine will make you more energetic and driven. When you feel good, you’re likely to see the positive side to most situations, which will be a big help in the event things don’t go as planned. This happens to everyone, so do your best to roll with it and stay positive. Remember, if things don’t go your way today, there’s always tomorrow.

Successful Everyday

The key to feeling successful every single day is being goal-oriented. Those small, daily goals we were talking about give us many opportunities per day to be successful. You won’t always attain every single goal every single day, but there will always be some positive takeaway. For example, maybe you weren’t as productive at work or you didn’t do as well on a test as you’d hoped, but you walked or ran a half mile more than you normally do. In this case, the extra half mile is your positive takeaway. This is how we learn to recognize success for ourselves each day.

Focus on your own success, and don’t worry too much about what other people are doing. Everyone has their own path and we all do things a little differently. Even if the end goal is the same, everyone’s journey is a unique and personal one. With your success clearly defined, along with a goal-oriented and positive outlook, you’ll be well on your way to feeling successful each day.