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Active and Contemplative Religious Sisters and Brothers

Experience, Skills, and Personality Traits

First and foremost, religious sisters and brothers must have a vocation to the religious life. They must believe that God is calling them to dedicate their lives to the service of the church. Their religious communities must also feel certain that aspiring members are called.

All sisters and brothers must take the traditional vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience. In taking a vow of poverty, religious sisters and brothers commit to living simply and to sharing all things with their community. Excessive accumulation of material possessions is not acceptable, even for active religious who earn outside income.

The vow of chastity requires that brothers and sisters not have sexual relations or marry. This requirement is not a condemnation of sexuality in general. It simply allows them to devote all their love to God. Prior sexual activity does not disqualify a candidate.

Obedience is understood as a listening vow. Sisters and brothers must listen to and faithfully serve the religious community, the church, and God. Each member is required to obey the superior (highest authority) of the community and follow the established rules of the order or congregation.

In addition to the above requirements, candidates must be in good physical and emotional health, have a sound character, and be free from monetary debt. Religious communities are not looking for people who are trying to escape from everyday problems or are afraid of marriage and intimate relationships. Good health and emotional maturity are essential to living a religious life.