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Family Lawyers

Experience, Skills, and Personality Traits

Experience as a family law intern, volunteer, or clerk is highly recommended.

Most family lawyers cite strong communication skills as the most important trait for success in this specialty. Family lawyers must be able to work well with people in very stressful situations, be able to listen empathetically to clients’ problems, and explain potential solutions and the legal process to clients. Family lawyers also must be able to effectively communicate orally and in writing to clients, opposing counsel, court personnel (e.g., judges, state’s attorneys), social workers, child and geriatric psychologists, and support staff such as paralegals and legal secretaries. Other important traits include patience; strong negotiation and counseling skills; the ability to remain objective about highly sensitive matters; excellent negotiation, time management, and organizational skills; strong trial skills; and the ability to think on one’s feet.